Hi, just wanted to write and say that for all mother’s considering adoption, having your baby says to him/her that you love them.

Dear Birth Mother,


I want you to know how brave and selfless you are. You made the very painful decision to place your child for adoption because your child’s well-being was more important to you than even your own. Never let anyone ever make you feel bad about yourself for the decision you made. You know in your heart that you did the right thing and your child will grow up with so much love and admiration for you. I was adopted and I think of my birth mother as my hero. She knew she couldn’t give me the life I deserved and I respect her so very much for her decision.

Never lose hope and always remember that in your heart you know you did what was right. No one else’s thoughts matter. Just your own.

Dear birthmother,


I applaud your courage and love to nurture your child in the womb, when other options could seem so much easier.

I hope and prayer your experience is as wonderful as mine. We adopted all 4 of our children and I can’t imagine being any more fulfilled as a mother! I have a great open relationship with each of their birthmoms and they are like family to me. Your child is so blessed to have 2 moms to love him/her. God bless you and give you peace about your decision and may you always know you made the RIGHT choice!!!


Love and prayers

Deb

I am in awe of how selfless birth mothers are. To put your child’s life before your own even when it hurts you takes a very strong and loving person. My family has been so blessed through adoption and I will always be grateful and never forget the sacrifices that were made to make my family whole. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Dear birth mother,

I know you might be scared right now, afraid of this step you’re taking. But please know you have people behind you, supporting your choice and you! You are loved greatly and matter.

Love, Jo.

Dear birth mom, you are a hero! You made the beat decision in a difficult situation. Not everyone can do that, but you did. You should be proud of yourself, and I know your child will be proud of you too. Thank you for choosing LIFE for your child, when it might have been easier to choose abortion. You are destined to do great things in life. I am praying for you.

MY family adopted a 3mos. old baby with special needs. He was such an inspiration to our family and taught us many valuable life lessons of things we so easily take for granted. I would personally like to thank his birth mother who made the sacrifice to give him up for adoption..Your sacrifice was a blessing for our family.

Dear Birthmother,


Your brave selfless act of making an adoption plan for your child shows the greatest love possible. It is not the easy way out or a selfish act. I am a Mom to 3 thanks to the brave selfless act of 3 different women. Each of them has a piece of my heart and a lifetime of my prayers. I could never repay them for what they gave to me. Birthmothers are awesome!!!


Sincerely,


Grateful Adoptive Parent and Adoption Supporter

I’m always aware of how hard it is to choose to carry a child for 9 months, ultimately for someone else, rather than take the faster way to end the embarrassment and discomfort. Your sacrifice never goes unnoticed and I wanted you to know that. I work with many couples that cry for the loss the mother feels. They know that she helped them to build a family they would never have had without her but they also know what it’s like to go home without a baby. They are grateful beyond the words I could ever say here. We all respect you and care deeply for you. —Agency Owner

Dear Birth Mom, The selfless love you have shown is an incredible gift. Your courage is beyond what most cannot comprehend. Know that you are loved, admired, and prayed for.

Dear strong beautiful birth mother:

You are such an amazing person. You loved someone so much you were willing to break your heart to never break theirs. You gave your child a better life and an amazing woman the chance to be a mommy. A couple a chance to have a family. That act is so selfless and powerful. Only a brave beautiful caring woman could give such a beautiful gift. On the nights you are alone and crying or sad and clutching a teddy bear, please don’t be sad for long, because not many people can say they had the courage to do something so completly life changing for a stranger, and so selfless for their child. You are strong. You are brave. You are loved. You are beautiful. You took the path less traveled and you owned it! You are forever a mommy. You are birth mom strong and I salute you. ❤


Sincerely, a fellow mom

Dear Birth Mother,

I am writing this to you as an adopted child, who found out years ago that my birth mother had passed away before I could search for her. Growing up knowing I was adopted at 5mos old, I always dreamt of meeting my birth mother. It crushed me to know that I would never be able to thank her, or just see her face in person. My own blood. It’s been years now, and I have my own children. I could never imagine having to give my babies up… But I do know that I would do ANYTHING to keep them safe, and give them the best life possible. So if giving them away meant that… I’d do it. I am so grateful for people like you, and I am still considering adopting a child in the future. Thank you so much for your selflessness. I never got to thank my own birth mother, Lucille… But I feel like thanking you in a way transfers to her. You are appreciated and loved.

Dear birth mom,

I want to tell you how incredibly brave and selfless you are. I was an unexpected pregnancy and my birth mother chose life for me and chose to place me with adoptive parents. Now,as a mother myself, I know without a doubt how much she loved me to make this incredibly difficult decision. To love your child so much,wanting them to have what you are unable to provide,is the epitome of loving your child and being the best mother you possibly could be for your baby. From the bottom of my heart,THANK YOU for being so brave,so selfless,so loving!

Hey there momma!! Happy Valentine’s Day!! I myself am a birthmom as well. I hope wherever you are at in your journey you are feeling peaceful, loved, & joyous! You are cherished. I may not know you or even your name at this moment, but I am constantly thinking of all of the birthmoms in this world & wish I could hug & talk to each one! You are so brave momma. You are beautiful, selfless, & amazing. I hope you know you make this world a better place just by being in it.

Dear birth mom,

Words can’t express how our family feels about you! What I want you to know most is that we pray for you every day. You are loved, respected and so incredibly courageous.

Dear birth mom,

Thank you for your bravery, strength and love! You are amazing!