Birth mom

What are realistic expectations to set in an open adoption?
If I choose not to see my child, does that make me a bad mother? Will people think I don’t love him? COMING SOON!
How will I know which couple is “the one”?
Do I need to establish the amount of time I want to see my child in the very beginning or can I see them more as time passes?
Where do I even begin with finding an agency? What specific things should I look for?
Will anyone really love my child?
What’s the difference between an adoption agency and an attorney?
Do I have to pay an agency or attorney for their services?
Once the baby is born, how much time will I have with him/her?
Will I ever be able to see my baby? Can I name my baby?