A decision to make an adoption plan is heroic. I’m adopted, and my birth mom is a hero. She gave me everything. As a birth mother you’ve given everything you can, and it is everything to your child. Thank you.

Being a mother means always putting your childs needs ahead of your own even if it is a difficult thing to do. Thank you for making that brave decision to give your child the best. Being an adoptee and having met my birthmother as an adult and seeing how much she truly loves me, I understand what you are doing is not easy. Just know that it does not mean you dont love your child, it just means that you are their mother and you, in your heart, know what is best for them. You are making a selfless choice. I dont know you but my heart goes out too you.

Thank You!!! May God Bless you for the most selfless act of love and courage imaginable. . I struggled with infertility, and was given the best gift of my life when my adopted daughter was placed with us. I think of her birth mom often, hoping that she understands that her sacrifice was not lost or forgotten. Aubrey’s birth mom will always be my hero. I tell my daughter that she has two mothers that love her dearly, and that she was not an accident or unwanted, that her birth mother chose life for her. That she gave her what she thought was best by placing her for adoption. I am eternally greatful!

You are a hero and your loving decision brings a smile to God’s heart!

I’m adopted. My brother’s adopted. My husband and I always knew we would adopt because of that tremendous gift my biological mother gave me. Our adopted son turned 6 years old today, and we just couldn’t be more blessed. Thank you!

You are my hero!

May God bless you for your selfless gift. I have have two nephews and a cousin who were adopted into our family. I’ve seen both sides of this gift you’ve given and am so grateful to the birth moms of those I treasure and hold so dear. Happy Mother’s Day – even if it’s a day late! With love and admiration.

birth mamas – thank you. you are loved, seen and have endless value in this world!

4 of my favorite people in this world are my children’s birth parents.

What you did you did from your heart. I am an adoptee and not once did I ever feel unwanted. I always knew you did the very best for me at the time. You loved me enough to let me go❤️!

Pam and Cheryl – I love you. I pray for you. I am grateful everyday you gave my children life and gave me the opportunity to be their mommy.

Dear birth mother,

First, I commend you for contemplating the route of adoption for your baby. I am adopted, I am also a birth mother, and I have helped two teen moms become birth moms. You will love yourself and respect yourself so much when you see how the adoptive family treats your baby and shares their love. I could not financially take care of a baby properly, and perhaps that is your reasoning as well for creating a loving adoption plan. For whatever reason, you are selfless, you are strong, and you are creating a family that could otherwise not be one. It may seem difficult, but like everything in life, it is a journey to a better you. This is a decision made by you for your baby. You are an amazing woman with an amazing strength and a love so fierce that you are doing the right thing for your baby. Much love, Kristen

Without the unselfish act of two generous birthmothers I would not be a mom today, Elaine Levi

As an adoptive mom I thank you for your sacrifice. I pray God’s blessing and peace for you.

My husband and I made the decision recently to adopt and are now waiting to be accepted by an agency. Not being able to have a child of our own, we are forever grateful to birth moms everywhere who make the decision to place their child in the arms of another living parent and trust us with their child’s life. Thank you to all birth moms everywhere who make the most selfless choice possible!

3 women shared their motherhood with me in this selfless way. I’m beyond grateful. Many blessings to you!

I volunteer at a Pregnancy Help Center and am so blessed to know now what adoption truly means – SELFLESS LOVE!

Birthmoms, you ladies are incredible, selfless, miracles! Thank you for blessing families who otherwise may have never been able to experience the joy of parenthood!

On Mother’s Day my thoughtless boyfriend tried the whole day to convince me to have an abortion. I just couldn’t. I love children and always wanted to have children. After a couple months of pregnancy I had already become attached to the tiny spark of potential in my belly. I knew he wasn’t on board with keeping the baby, and there was a fundamental flaw in our relationship that eventually would sever it. We were intelligent college students. I knew there were welfare programs and food stamps, and we would be able to make it if we really tried. But. I didn’t want another generation of poverty and broken homes for my new baby. We decided to give the baby up for adoption. We found a couple who met all of criteria. We planned for an open adoption. I have been able to see him grow up to be the genius I always knew he would be, with parents who had time to cultivate his talents. He is amazing, his adoptive parents are amazing. My ex is a lone scholar. Now I have three more amazing children and an amazing husband who is even smarter and much more loving than my ex. I am stable. I am happy. There is always the pang of what-if and the awkwardness of a conversation about how many children I have. I know now that I did the right thing. I followed my heart.

Thank you for choosing life!! You are brave and you are loved.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you!!!

Never hug my kids I don’t think of you.

I am adopted. I met my birth mother when I was 30. She never stopped loving me and I am grateful for her wisdom and sacrifice. Giving me up was a very difficult, brave, and selfless decision.


Thank you for giving your baby the same gift my birth mom gave to me.

To my son Nicholas Antonio, I love you very much.

I hope that one day you will grow and understand the choice I placed you.

I didn’t do it for myself, I did it to give you what I could not.

And that was a wonderful life.

I love you to the moon and back.

Love Mom.